Celebration of Our Stars, Rancho Sordo Mudo and Hearing Everett

This weekend I volunteered at the "Celebration of our stars" talent show at my school. It was kids from our community who are part of the children's therapy unit (with disabilities). I did one-on-one with a boy with autism, N. He was ten, and actually is one of the students of a friend of mine. I watched a movie with him, played chase, and had a good time. It was a good experience for me, and if you ever have any opportunity to do something like this, do it. By the end of the show, you don't see special- needs kids, you see kids, who some might happen do be in a wheelchair or walker. Put the kid before the disability. There was one boy there, who I'll call Jacob. He and N were playing tag for at least an hour on the wrestling mat. It didn't matter to either of them that Jacob couldn't walk, and crawled/ hopped like a frog to get around. They were busy having fun like normal boys. Now think of Carter. He might not walk right, but imagine him playing with N and Jacob. Playing chase, watching movies, performing in a talent show. Can you see him? I can. We're called to be the body of Christ. I'm convicted, I'm as guilty as everyone: we aren't doing what we should. God is calling us to save the orphans. You're here on this blog reading this right now for a reason.
There are 147 million orphans in the world. There are 100 at 39. 15 were listed on RR. Renee was able to meet almost all of them . 8 have found their forever families. Of the she met, only 3 are left. My boy Carter, Erin and Marcus. There's two pictures on their RR profiles now, ones that Renee took. Carter is smiling, with a thumbs up. He was more relaxed, and happy in that picture. I can't wait to see him home, smiling that he has a family, someone who cares about him. Renee has been home for almost a month. Things have probably settled down. Soon, Tyler, Alexis, Duncan, Sam, Patti and Pryce will disappear. From upstairs in the DS room, Bernadette (Jessica) and Mason will go home. Then Carter and Marcus will be left. Imagine how that will feel. When the facilitator asked who wanted a family, Carter raised his hand. He isn't smiling in his original picture because he was nervous. Nervous that his family wouldn't want him. Marcus was scared his family would see his legs and not want him, because he has believed the lies that no one wants a child with a disability. Carter will see that all his friends are being adopted, and he'll believe that he's not wanted. Go get him. Show him someone cares. God will provide. Show them love. Carter's just a normal kid, who happens to walk differently. Every kid goes to the doctor, maybe he'll need to go a little more often. Please don't let him live without a family. If I could, I'd adopt him. Just a normal kid.
This weekend, we had a speaker at our church. His name was Luke Everett, and he's the pastor from Rancho Sordo Mudo, a ministry for the deaf orphans in Mexico. He told us his life story, which was pretty amazing. You can hear it here and his message here. He went lost most of his hearing when he was little. His dad was called to be a missionary in Mexico, and they packed up their family and headed south (they lived in America). If you haven't seen the movie, "Hearing Everett", I suggest you do. It's about Rancho Sordo Mudo, and how his family was lead there. Listen to Luke's life story, while you're cleaning up. Have a family movie night and watched "Hearing Everett". He's now in his 50s. He's had a lot happen to him. But despite everything that has happened to him, he still has hope in Jesus. Give Carter that hope. Let him meet Jesus, so one day he can share his story with everyone. He is a miracle of God, save him.
I'm so excited, I hope to go to Rancho Sordo Mudo next year with my church. And I'm going to Haiti on a mission trip. I pray that it will all work out, and that one day, I'll be able to go to Carter's country on a mission trip. God Bless, have a good night.

20 Seconds

Written by Renee of But By Grace
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20 Seconds
Can your life be summed up in 5 sentences?

Did you do it? Does it describe you pretty accurately? Let me guess- your name, age, gender, marital status, how many kids you have, your faith, and maybe where you live all made it?

Now, if you were applying for a job, is it enough to get you hired? Would it even get you a call-back for an interview? What if it were the description for a personal ad online? Would anyone contact you based on that? Do you stand any chance of making a match?
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Can your personality, your life, your charming essence, be summed up in one photograph?

Try it. Stop reading here and go flip through your photo album or your online photo storage or even your facebook photos or your hard drive- wherever they're stored. I dare you to find one that shows all the aspects that make you unique- your happiness, your quirkiness, your seriousness, your intelligence.

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Welcome back. Did you find that perfect photo? No? I bet you found at least one that you really liked though, right? Your favorite photo of yourself?

Now pull out your driver's license. Your passport. Your student ID from years ago or even your credit card- anything with a photo that you didn't have time to prepare for and didn't have any choice in selecting.

Would that one get you any dates? a job interview?

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If you look at the pictures of orphans from EE on photolistings, you're seeing 20 seconds of their life. 20 seconds of their personality, interests, abilities.

They likely had no warning, no preparation. They were thrust in front of a stranger snapping pictures, assembly line, in a room they may not have been in before. The older ones may know that that picture is their hope for a family. Sometimes they don't smile- would you? If you knew your chance at family and happiness had suddenly appeared after years of waiting and it all rides on a picture, can you imagine how solemn and nervous you would feel?

Carter looks nervous in his RR picture. I was there when it was taken. He was nervous. Solemn. Serious. Observant.
He looks tense doesn't he? Hopeful but resigned at the same time? Scared to really look and share his heart, for fear he'll be rejected and passed over again?

This is Carter too, cropped from a picture with his friends- one of which was being adopted. He looks a bit sad here too, as though he knows the person that was getting picked wasn't him, and that his chance was low of getting picked.


Do you see what I mean about him standing on his ankles funny? He really needs some AFO's and good PT/medical care so he can run and play.

I get it, you know. I get that it can be scary for a family to even consider a kid, an older kid, who looks so serious. You might be wondering what he's thinking or if he can even laugh and enjoy life, or love.

This is the Carter that we saw in January and February, every time: This is the cutie pie that snuck up and yelled BOO to his buddy after lunch. This is the cutie pie that gave me high fives and got so tickled laughing that he made me laugh and bring tears to my eyes, seeing his joy. He's a darling- a spunky, "all boy" kind of little guy. He's just meant to be somebody's little brother, in a family that loves practical jokes and little boys just being boys. He needs to catch lizards, climb trees, eat ice cream in the summer so it drips down his chin and go fishing with his big brother and dad and grandpa. He's sweet and funny and full of energy and a really good friend to those around him.

He doesn't need to spend yet another year sitting in an orphanage, even a really good orphanage. wondering why no one chose him.

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And Marcus. So many folks have told me they just love Marcus- his soulful little eyes. It angers me sometimes, thinking of him growing up feeling that his legs are something to be ashamed of and hidden. It grieves me that he feels unworthy because his legs don't work.These intense, soulful brown eyes, don't they grab at your heart? This face, how did his mom walk away from it? He's just perfect- a gorgeous little guy. This picture hits me in the gut like fist- his face to me just says "Do you want me? No one else does." His gaze just seems so honest, so open, so revealing.
This is the one that hurts me. Hearing the facilitator talk about how he pulled the blanket over his legs, to hide them, so no one would see his shame- NO CHILD SHOULD FEEL THAT WAY!!! NEVER!!!!

Fearfully and wonderfully made- he is. God does not make mistakes. This boy needs to know He is precious in God's sight, and in ours as well.
There are the legs that he tried so hard to hide. There he is, do you see his fingers? He was pinching the ends together, nervous as he could be, with nothing hiding his legs. He doesn't hide his legs in the orphanage, because everyone there has some type of disability so he doesn't feel odd. But these kids know that they were abandoned by their families because of their disability. If one mama would dump him because his legs don't work, it's hard for him to believe that a different mama would choose him knowing about those legs.

But here he sits, trying to stuff down his fears and nervousness, still clinging to some tiny bit of optimism that someone might, maybe, choose him for their son.

But don't look at all the other pictures and decide that Marcus is a weak, overly-sensitive, helpless child with hidden legs. When he's not under the pressure of posing for a 20 second photograph that may determine his fate of getting a family, he's a bright, successful little boy. This is him in school. His notebook is lying in front of him, and he was taking notes when this was shot. He's looking over at someone who was speaking when camera caught him. He's quite smart, in the "smart" classes for his age.

He likes school. If he lived here, in the USA, instead of EE, he'd probably be an excellent student with plans for college and a career in something exciting. Instead, he's fully aware that in 6 years, life and his chances of a future will pretty much come to a screeching halt. Transfer to an adult mental institution, or if he's "lucky", dismissal into the streets as a penniless 16 yr old orphan.

Someone needs to go get him now, now while he still has a chance to settle in and thrive, to prepare for high school and college.

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5 Sentences to describe your entire life, written by someone else, potentially losing meaning in translation, as your only chance of someone claiming you as their son.

1 picture, taken in 20 seconds, with no time to go comb your hair, change into a cute outfit, or get your hope, fears and excitement under control, and your entire future rides on it turning out well.

Carter.

Marcus.

Look beyond what you see, let God guide your heart.

Is God whispering "this one's yours, Mama" or "there's your son, Daddy"?

Patti has a family!!!!!!!!

She's on MFFM!

Sam and Duncan- MY FAMILY FOUND ME (if you didn't know ;)

Well, if you didn't know by now, Sam and Duncan are both getting adopted, together!!!! But their family needs some help raising funds. They are doing a giveaway, go to their blog and check it out!

http://eightmortons.blogspot.com/

Oh, Spud beat me to it! If you didn't know, today is World Autism Awareness Day. About one in every 110 people are diagnosed with some level of autism. Here is a video I found on Youtube that helps explain autism.
http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=FeGaffIJvHM

Many kids on Reece's Rainbow have "suspected autism", but most of those are probably just because institutional atmosphere.
Autism usually affects a persons social life. It is usually awkward for them to try and meet new people.

I know its late, but:

Join Autism Speaks in celebrating World Autism Awareness Day on April 2 and Light It Up Blue to help shine a light on autism. Whether it's your front porch or your local city hall, an office party or a banquet, the whole world is going blue to increase awareness about autism.

Light It Up Blue, in its third year, is a unique global initiative to help raise awareness about the growing public health concern that is autism. Iconic landmarks around the world will Light It Up Blue to show their support.

Join us now and help shine a light on autism.

a brief message in honor of World Autism Awareness Day today!

what is autism? Autism is a developmental disorder that appears in the first 3 years of life, and affects the brain's normal development of social and communication skills.

Okay, but how does it affect me? Experts estimate that six children out of every 1,000 will have autism.  Males are four times more likely to have an autism than females.

now how can i help? you can give money and/or time (more info at autismspeaks.org)